Friday, March 12

Romans 12:9-21

EVERY DAY, WE HAVE A CHOICE

Let love be genuine; hate what is evil, hold fast to what is good; love one another with mutual affections; outdo one another in showing honor. Do not lag in zeal, be ardent in spirit, serve the Lord.

I recently had lunch with a friend, Jim Rhatigan, former vice president for student affairs and dean of students at Wichita State. He said a colleague had asked him about the single best piece of advice he could give after nearly five decades of working with students. His response: Never underestimate the importance of an ordinary day.

"I have come to understand very clearly that any one day, any one encounter, can make a difference in my life or any life," he said. He talked about the significance of small acts of kindness and how we cannot surrender to a bad day. "What if that day was the very day you could have made a difference?"

In the words of Christy Hansen, a former member of our youth group: "You never know when you're going to be the answer to someone else's prayers."

These verses are clear: We are to serve the Lord by showing genuine love, affection and honor toward one another, never lagging in enthusiasm. But how do we do that day after ordinary day, when we're tired, focused inward, overwhelmed?

It is in every moment of my day that I have a choice.

As others have shown me, it takes little to offer a kind word, assistance with a door, eye contact and a smile, a respectful tone rather than impatience, warmth when someone is expecting harshness or indifference, and listening with genuine attention.

Lord, thank you for those who have shown kindness and love when I needed it most. Help me see how I can show your love, even in small ways on the most ordinary of days. Amen.

Jill Pletcher


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